Do you need to save your marriage? Has your spouse has sat you down and said they want a divorce? Or maybe they just shouted it out in the middle of a blazing row and shocked you? Whatever and however you heard, you never saw it coming and now you're desperate to figure out how you can fix this and how you can save your marriage before it's too late.
Well the good thing to know is that 85% of all spouses who ask for a divorce, don't really want a divorce. They want to shake up their spouse and let them realize that things are bad and things need to change. So take that point on board and do some serious figuring and find out if your spouse is really serious about wanting a divorce or if they are trying to shake you up into repairing your marriage?
Think! Has your spouse been trying to talk to you for a long time now? Have they been trying to tell you how they feel about certain problems that they see as deal breakers in your marriage and you've just ignored them? If you answer yes to these questions and you really want to save your marriage, then get ready to start listening and taking action.
Think about the real problems in your marriage if you really want to save your marriage and go to your spouse with a plan to save your marriage.
You have to convince your spouse that you understand what the problem is and that you are sure that if the two of you start to talk and work things out, then you can put things right and save your marriage.
The option of doing nothing means that your spouse might very well follow through on their threat to divorce you and that means that you end up alone. Losing a spouse that you still love and still see yourself making a life with, is no fun and is only filled with loneliness, sadness and bitter bitter regret. And if that wasn't enough, imagine seeing the spouse you still love leave you, go off, fall in love with someone else and start a new life with someone else. It's not a pleasant thought is it?
You really need to take action right now before it's too late!
I mean, perhaps your spouse is threatening divorce to wake you up to how bad things have got for them. Perhaps your spouse doesn't mean any of it. But what if your spouse is serious and they are one step away from consulting a lawyer to begin divorcing you? Don't run the risk of it being too late. You should start taking the right steps to save your marriage and you must start today if you don't want to end up alone in a few months time.
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