Have You Been Unfaithful - Well Here Are 3 Steps to Save Your Marriage and Stop a Divorce!

Ok, so you already know that by being unfaithful you've crossed the line and deeply hurt and betrayed your spouse, but you should also know that it's not too late. You can save your marriage, you can stop a divorce and the repair starts right now!

Follow ALL These Tips to Save Your Marriage and Stop a Divorce

1) Talk to your spouse and tell them that you have made the biggest mistake of your life in cheating on them. Be sure you know though that a simple apology such as this is not designed for instant forgiveness and a quick way back into your spouse's heart. No, instead it lays down your intention to your spouse and tells your spouse that you know you've made a massive mistake.

2) Absolutely 100% end all contact with your lover! No amount of repair work to save your marriage and stop a divorce will have any positive effect if you're still in anyway in contact with your ex lover. So no calls, texting and absolutely no meeting up.

3) Get ready to shoulder the anger and hurt that your spouse is feeling. Most people who have been betrayed in this way are livid and will want to vent that anger. This anger shouldn't, however come out as physical violence. So don't be too shocked when you start to see for yourself just how angry your spouse is!

4) Get some real help to find out what's gone wrong with your marriage, that has meant you ended up cheating on your spouse. Perhaps there's a distance between you and your spouse, whether emotionally or physically? Whatever the underlying problems in your marriage, if you want to save your marriage and stop a divorce, then you need to find some top class help to help you understand the problems in your marriage.

I would highly recommend that you opt for one of the better marriage repair guides that you can down load online. The best of these guides have helped thousands of couples understand the problems in their marriages and saved their marriages.

Your alternative is to do nothing and watch as your marriage breaks up and the spouse you love walks out the door and goes and falls in love with someone else and makes a life with that someone else.